Red poppy for remembrance. White poppy for peace. No reason they can't exist together. The red one does not celebrate war, it acknowledges that it existed. The white one does not denigrate remembrance, it mourns waste and wishes for it to end. Wear both. Celebrate peace, mourn the dead. http://www.britishlegion.org.uk/ http://www.whitepoppy.org.uk/ I am not affiliated with the PPU or the Royal British Legion.